Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Silence

There are many times that we could not even say a words. This time is it really good to keep silent? For some reason i think is YES! This happen especially when we are driven with our emotions. We dealing with  many things everyday. Even from a very simple matter might caught our attention and make the situations go wild. Many arguments tends to happen just for a tiny matters which is not worth for arguing. But i do admit that if we do not voice out our opinion, it will eventually lead to worse situations. For me, i prefer to have happily life than keep thinking non-sense all day longs. So, i rather choose to be silent than arguing. Did you ever realize that when we are caught into a fight, we tend to driven by our emotions. Instead of thinking rationally, many words that should not be say are spill out. All these just making the situation go worse than improving it. People say that when we are arguing, we tend to yell at each other. This is because the distance between them are getting further and further. This time, probably remain silent was the best way to keep our self rational instead of yelling each other. Honestly, i have been in this situation before. Feel regret actually with what i have said. I admit that it does really hurt them with every single words i've said. It is just like no other positive things we thought of and all the surroundings just being the negative sides. Basically, i am just being too negative thoughts that moment. Or i should say that i do not find the proper words to express myself. Now i've learned. Being silent do no harm!

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